This week, we are going to continue talking about families. Last time, you learned about family relationships. This week, we are going to talk about types of families. There are six different types of families we can see in our society today.
A nuclear family is two adults with at least one child. When most people think about a family, this is the kind of family they imagine. However, there are different kinds of nuclear families. Some have many children while others have only one. Some have a mother and a father while others have two parents of the same gender. Some have biological children, and others have adopted children. These are all nuclear families.
In a single-parent family, there is only one adult who is raising children. The other parent might not be there for many different reasons – death, divorce, etc. About 25% of American children are born to single mothers.
Blended Families (Step Families)
A blended family forms when one single parent marries another single parent. For example, Sharon and her husband have 2 kids, and then they get divorced. Michael and his wife have 3 kids, and then they get divorced. Sharon and Michael get married to each other, and now they have 5 kids – 2 from Sharon’s previous marriage, and 3 from Michael’s previous marriage. They have blended (mixed/put together) two families.
Sometimes, for various reasons, a child is raised by his grandparents instead of his parents. When grandparents are raising their grandchildren without help from the children’s parents, this is a grandparent family.
Not all families have children. Some couples choose not to have children, and some couples are not able to have children, but they are still a family.
An extended family might include one or two parents, children, grandparents, aunts and uncles, and/or cousins all living together. As grandparents get older, they might move in with their adult children and grandchildren. Or if a spouse (husband or wife) dies, another adult family member might move in to help with the children. There are many reasons why a family might live together in this way.
Write your answers to these questions, or talk about them with your classmates.
- What makes a family – blood or love?
- What are some of the reasons people choose to adopt a child?
- Should homosexual couples be allowed to adopt children? Why or why not?
- Are your grandparents still alive? Did you meet them?
- Which type of family do you have now? Which type did you have when you were a child?
- Would you live with your parents after getting married? Why or why not?
- Who should take care of old people? Why?
- Describe a typical family in your country.
- Do you think married couples should have children? Why or why not? What do you think of married couples who choose not to have children?
- Is it okay to have more than one spouse? Would you like to be in this kind of family (as a spouse or as a child)?